We get stuck in our own thinking time and time again. “I can’t”, or “I’m too old” or “it isn’t possible” or even “it’s too much effort” has held so many of us back for years, even decades. Yet, other people move forward fulfilling their dreams.
Need proof? Here is a series of well-intended decisions that I received recently – and it is worth a lot of thought. How many of these might have been you or me saying these things?
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Computers in the future may weigh no more than 1.5 tons.
— “Popular Mechanics,” forecasting the relentless march of science, 1949
I think there is a world market for maybe five computers.
— Thomas Watson, chairman of IBM, 1943
There is no reason anyone would want a computer in their home.
— Ken Olson, president, chairman and founder of Digital Equipment Corp., 1977
This “telephone” has too many shortcomings to be seriously considered as a means of communication. The device is inherently of no value to us.
— Western Union internal memo, 1876.
The wireless music box has no imaginable commercial value. Who would pay for a message sent to nobody in particular?
— David Sarnoff’s associates in response to his urgings for investment in the radio in the 1920s.
The concept is interesting and well-formed, but in order to earn better than a “C,” the idea must be feasible.
— A Yale University management professor in response to Fred Smith’s paper proposing reliable overnight delivery service. Smith went on to found Federal Express Corp.
I’m just glad it’ll be Clark Gable who’s falling on his face and not Gary Cooper.
— Gary Cooper on his decision not to take the leading role in “Gone With The Wind.”
We don’t like their sound, and guitar music is on the way out.
— Decca Recording Co. rejecting the Beatles, 1962.
Heavier-than-air flying machines are impossible.
— Lord Kelvin, president, Royal Society, 1895.
So we went to Atari and said, “Hey, we’ve got this amazing thing, even built with some of your parts, and what do you think about funding us? Or we’ll give it to you. We just want to do it. Pay our salary, we’ll come work for you.” And they said, “No.” So then we went to Hewlett-Packard, and they said, “Hey, we don’t need you. You haven’t got through college yet.”
— Apple Computer Inc. founder Steve Jobs on attempts to get Atari and H-P interested in his and Steve Wozniak’s personal computer.
This fellow Charles Lindbergh will never make it. He’s doomed.
— Harry Guggenheim, millionaire aviation enthusiast.
Stocks have reached what looks like a permanently high plateau.
— Irving Fisher, Professor of Economics, Yale University, 1929.
Airplanes are interesting toys but of no military value.
— Marechal Ferdinand Foch, Professor of Strategy, Ecole Superieure de Guerre.
Man will never reach the moon regardless of all future scientific advances.
— Dr. Lee De Forest, inventor of the vacuum tube and father of television.
Everything that can be invented has been invented.
— Charles H. Duell, Commissioner, U.S. Office of Patents, 1899.
Received from Mikey’s Funnies; https://www.mikeysfunnies.com/
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I hope that this makes a point as well as entertains you! Years ago I worked for one of these companies and watched them make choices that caused them to dwindle from a major player to a minor, struggling company in just a matter of years due to rigid, inflexible thinking. Other companies that simply saw things differently rose up and took over the market quite quickly.
If there is an idea, there is likely a way. This can apply to the smaller things in life as well as the big things. Small changes in life choices can cause ripple effects that make us feel set free or empowered or simply happier. Just this week I watched a client sit back with eyes open wide say “Wow, I never saw it like that before. I didn’t realize…. This changes the way I see and feel about it. This is going to take some unpacking, but . . . . Wow!” Her perspective had just shifted and the potential for change came with it. Before that, she was stuck in an impossible situation she could not sustain much longer.
Identifying the small choices that need to be addressed can be challenging. Identifying that we actually have choices can be a struggle. Facing them can require support from others.
We are here to help with both of these – and more.
Give us a call and schedule your free phone consultation (248-284-6050). We’d be happy to answer your questions to help you move forward.
Janet Schryer Donahue, LPC, CCTP, ADHD-CCSP, NCC
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